The childhood is an important stage in building the character of the individual and where children acquire the most important experiences . providing proper growth requirements of the things follows assist them in achieving a stable and together Childhood is the violence of indicators that can determine whether personal or illness social .the social circumstances experienced community Iraqi and continues through crises successive wars and explosions and the displacement and that these events may lead to changes in the social behavior of individuals and may contribute to the spread of violence in Iraqi society and observed various forms in (home, school, street, and work), so it was natural that a child the first affected by these waves of violence for many reasons related to younger age and kids love to imitate adults and observe their behavior, particularly parents so you must pay attention to the behavior of their impact on the child's personality and psychosocial compatibility within the family and society. From the above it can sum up the problem of the current search the following question:- - Is the psychological and social compatibility has to do with the phenomenon of violence among pre-school children? Through the above it can be released importance of research of the following things. -The current research (within the knowledge of researcher), which dealt with the study of violence for being cause great harm to the individual and society because of its raised serious psychological and social structure of the individual. And on the structure of the family and the community.. -it stvdis an important stage in the life of the individual .oha early childhood If we can build upon together without crises will be reflected on the internal stability and compatibility psychosocial in the next stages -The current research (within the knowledge of researcher) researcher), the first attempt, which dealt with the study of the psychological and social compatibility and its relationship to the phenomenon of violence in early childhood. The current research aimed to:- The children pre-school psycho-social compatibility scale.- Measurement of the phenomenon of violence among children, pre-school -Correlation between the phenomenon of violence and psycho-social compatibility with pre-school children In order to achieve the objectives of the research were adopted psychosocial compatibility measure, prepared by (al-Janabi in 2002) and the scale of violence, prepared by Hayali 2009) where the measvyesbeen applied on a sample of children aged 4-6 years, reaching its size (200 ) boy and girl after extracting the validity and reliability of the two. In doing data analysis through answers parameters were reached: - - that the children of pre-school malnourished in the psychological and social well for them - that children of pre-school stage suffer from the phenomenon of violence among them. - There is an inverse correlation between the negative psychological and social harmony between the phenomenon of violence among a sample search relationship The backing of these results and the researcher developed a number of recommendations and suggestions can be used by educational and community institutions.