هدف البحث الحالي إلى عامل البخل المعرفي الذي يعد من العوامل التي تعطل الأفراد سعي الى الادراك المتمثل بالبيئة المادية والمعرفية والعالم المحيط بهم فهو يجعل الأفراد لا يرغبون في بذل المزيد من الجهد والوقت في التفكير والتحليل مما يؤدي الي معوقات في الإدراك، فالبخل المعرفي هو اعتماد الفرد الاختصارات العقلية والاستدلالات العقلية السريعة للحفاظ على الموارد العقلية عند التعامل مع المهام التي تتطلب في المقام الا

Current research aimed at measurement of management of emotional among counselors and  knowledge of emotions management according to the variables of sex and length of service with counselors.

The Scale applied to a sample of basic research, amounting to (300) counselors.

1- That counselors have administration emotional.

2- There are no differences in the management of emotional statistically significant according to the variable (gender).

3- statistically significant differences according to the variable (length of service) in the management

& مشكلة  البحث:

           إن اعتبار الأسرة كوحدة أساسية في المجتمع يجعل دورها كبير في مهمة تربية أفرادها وبناء شخصياتهم وتوجيه سلوكهم ووقايتهم من انحرافه ،في جميع مراحل حياتهم ولاسيما مرحلة المراهقة .

          وتبدو قدسيتها ممثلة بركنيها للذين أمر الله عز وجل بأن يخفض لهما جناح الذل من الرحمة لخطورة

After the democratic transformation in 2003 in Iraq, young people waited a lot to take their real opportunity to participate in politics, but most of the laws regulating political and electoral work have been unfair to young people, despite developments in laws and legislation, but opportunities did not allow young people to participate in politics, which was reflected It negatively affected their participation in voting and nomination, and even their assumption of public office and positions, which is why they complained about the ruling class and the political system through protests, or when they refused to vote, and this is reflected in the recent parliamentary elections and low participation rates

When the enrollment of children in Riyadh, facing many of the psychological problems that appear in their daily lives through their behavior and their actions with their peers and their teachers in kindergarten, often result in psychological problems from which they suffer to do things socially unacceptable impact on their relationship with interactive with others, Vchksah child depends on the quality of Education and the treatment they received from all of the family as an incubator, his first, and kindergarten as an environment second to raise him without that overlook about his relationship with his comrades grade and the combination of these factors is one of the most important reasons promising in effect on the child's condi

The old ways of education has not been able to achieve the ultimate goal in the development of the child's personality and prepared for public life , so shall educators to adopt modern methods of learning such as cooperative learning , which takes into account the considerations psychology of children and their level of mental , as the collective learning is important for children mighty and vulnerable children and so by placing the child in front of something significant tangible and choose topics of relevance to the concerns of the child himself . ( Maroni , 2008 : 101-102 ) . Consisted importance of research of the most important goals of community child care and upbringing proper education to create him a good citizen intact,

The past few years have seen the development of the quantity and quality in the field of software, as it has become the word of electronic games of common terms used in the modern era.

And the effects of this software it is working on a low ability to exercise social activities and the ability to perform the duties and turn away from physical exercise level and lead to the neglect of the child to develop friendships and social relations as a result of his over-zealous in use for a long time .olhz a stated research to achieve Ahavh which are:

- Learn about social isolation among children Riyadh.

- Identify statistically sig

A school uniform is an international educational phenomenon , and that each
state through its pedagogical educational system imposes uniform hopping for goals
and visions that complement their theoretical framework, because of its extreme
importance that benefits the school administration, parents and pupils . The carried
out researches unanimous in various parts of the world on its importance,
including : the achievement of equality between students and strengthen their
affiliation to the school as well as the good appearance , and reduces competition in
the clothing and the maintenance of order in the classroom and school as well as
increases the seriousness and focus of students to study and make them known bot

ان الجزء الاكبر من السلوك الاجتماعي تنظمه المعايير الاجتماعية التي من المتوقع ان يسلك الافراد وفقا لها ، وهكذا فأن الجماعات التي يوجد انسجام بين افرادها سرعان ما تكون اتجاهات وولاءات مشتركة لعدد اكبر من المواقف فعندما ينظم فرد الى جماعة فأن ادراكاته تتغير لتتوافق مع معايير تلك الجماعة .( توق وعدس ، د.ت، ص336).وتؤدي الاسرة دورا اساسيا في اكساب الفرد اتجاهات ومعايير خلقية معينة ثم تقوم الجماعات الثانوية الم

من الجدير بالذكر أن تدني المهارات الاجتماعية أو فقدها لدى الأطفال المعاقين عقلياً يؤدي إلى ظهور مشكلات سلوكية سلبية مما أدى بالباحثة التصدي إلى هذه المشكلة من خلال تحسين المهارات الاجتماعية للأطفال المعاقين عقلياً قد يسهم في زيادة تفاعلهم الاجتماعي سواء مع أقرانهم او مع العاديين وهو ما قد يعيقهم على اكتساب السلوك التكيفي لذا ارتأت الباحثة ان تعد برنامجاً تدريبياً لتنمية المهارات الاجتماعية لدى المعا