The family is the fundamental nucleus of society that provide new members through the birth of her children in addition to being effective community for the passage of rays , culture and traditions and customs that the body receives through the process of socialization , the family is having its first and most basic human needs in general and children in particular , is the feeding of security and peace of mind but it is unfortunate the clairvoyant reality to find a phenomenon contrary to this requirement is important demands of proper socialization for children , but deity phenomenon of violence against people engaged in different ways and in ways that are contrary to human , resulting in serious consequences

Including physical disability , psychological or social development of children in its various forms that create a generation is difficult to deal with  as an essential  element in the process of  building a  healthy society  

Witch draws the attention of specialists trying to find the appropriate solutions and respond to the prevalence of domestic violence used with the children , unanimous theories that violent behavior is learn behavior  is learn from the social environment can be in the same way ( relearning and acquisition ) can be reduction and mitigation must take in to consideration  that the child was born underdeveloped and depended on his mother  to secure the continuity of life Vicu to Atmadia to his mother , how is his association with life and with environment surrounding it. This reliability and then move to the family environment and to the bench so that different forms of reliability , and develop without disappear or go away .